Going to the Dogs: From Zero to Zoo
I do not know how to kiss, or I would kiss you. Where do the noses go? --From the movie, For Whom the Bells Toll
I understand that it was the Greeks who believed that in order to be a completely well-rounded and happy person there were several kinds of love that you had to have in your life. The main ones being, Eros, Storge, Philia and Agape. The Greek word that closest captures the type of love and affection one might feel for a pet is "Storge" (στοργή). Storge generally refers to familial love or the natural affection between parents and children, but it can extend to the affection one feels towards pets due to their integration into the family and the nurturing care they receive. This type of love emphasizes a deep, emotional connection based on familiarity and dependency, similar to the feelings many people have for their pets.
Car brakes screech sound… See here’s the but and it’s a BIG BUT!
I knew it would rub off sooner or later. Like having kids, that dynamic. That special family feel. Instead of bringing the kids home to meet the family, now it’s pets. Now the fun part. Introducing the dog to Mom. Ok-Ok, I became that pet person. you know the one who brings her pets on vacation with her. The only reason why I brought the cats anyway was because one is on a special diet and the other one can't administer his own insulin. Otherwise, they would be chillin’ back in Da 'Burgh. Instead, I would only have Sheila, our cattle dog with us. But it was her impromptu game of toss at the very last minute…I mean we were getting ready to go out the door and leave the key under the mat timing when she decides to play toss the ball to herself and a vase got broken. Oh, and then there was Ernie missing his litter box that got us uninvited to stay at my youngest sister’s house when we come into town to visit.
But now at last! They will come to know the curse, oops I mean, the limitless joy and frustration, these furry creatures will bring into their lives. Fur will fly but love will thrive. Just like when we all became moms and were forever changed.
Oh, and by the way…mom told me that you have already started bringing Nala with you on your daily visits.
And now back to the educational part…The ancient Greeks understood that a fulfilling life required a rich tapestry of love, and they identified four distinct kinds that contribute to a complete, well-rounded, and happy existence. Eros represents passionate, romantic love—the kind that ignites our hearts and fuels our deepest desires. Storge encompasses the unconditional affection found in familial bonds, offering a sense of security and belonging. Philia, or friendship, provides companionship and mutual respect, forming the bedrock of meaningful connections. Lastly, Agape embodies selfless, unconditional love for others, transcending personal gain and promoting empathy and compassion. Each type of love plays a vital role in enriching our lives, reminding us that true happiness comes from nurturing a balanced blend of these profound emotional experiences.
Incorporating all four loves into our lives ensures that we build strong, supportive relationships and cultivate a sense of inner fulfillment. While Eros brings excitement and passion, Storge offers stability and warmth, Philia builds trust and camaraderie, and Agape fosters a deep, altruistic connection with the world. By embracing these diverse forms of love, we not only enrich our own lives but also contribute to a more harmonious and compassionate society.
There is more…to be continued!
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